What I've Learned From My Experience As A Server

Well, the day came and went faster than I could've ever seen coming. I am officially not working for Joe's Crab Shack anymore.

I'm not sure how to assess my feelings right now, because frankly I'm a little depressed it's all over and that I won't see some of those people again, but it's also very nice to know I can enjoy the rest of my summer again. However, today wasn't without it's own special craziness.

I went in to work around 1:30 PM for my 2 PM shift. I waited in the "fish tank" for a few and chatted up some of my friends about how the day has been going, and all of the sudden the restaurant got slammed. People were pouring into the restaurant and I was triple sat in a matter of moments. My friends and family came in to eat at my table for my last day and things went well for them and they really liked it! I was very happy.

However, as the night rolled around I was cut because of my hours. I had hit overtime and they cut me, realizing it was time for me to get off the clock. And just like that, I was done. I rolled my silverware, did my side work, said a few very sad goodbyes and left Joe's Crab Shack... for good. That's not to say I haven't learned anything from my own experiences there, and here's a few things I have picked up on from being a server.

1. Pick Your Battles

Is it more important for you to be right, or to have a job? One of the better servers told us this before our shift started. She gave us an example of a time when her and one of the managers got into a certain exchange of words. She basically told us that you shouldn't pick fights even if you know you are right in your own regard. Just go along with what they say. You need the money.

2. People Are Needy

I've learned this one the hard way. Sure, there are going to be those tables that run you like crazy, and there were. However, when it happens a lot, it starts to grate on your every nerve. People will run you for sauces and drink refills like no other. It's just something you have to put up with I guess.

3. COMPLETE Explanations Are Key

If you don't tell someone that their Shirley Temple isn't a free refill and you go ahead and ring in more, they are going to hate you at check time. This has happened to me multiple times. I learned that if you don't explain things to people fully, they won't get the picture and you will look dumb.

4. CONSOLIDATION

If you have so much on your plate that you want to get it all done quickly, consolidate. It makes life so much easier. Check on everything at once. This goes for life too. Never ignore any of your problems. Take care of them all at once even if it means little by little. Anything helps.

Finally, 5. A Little Dancing Never Hurt Anyone

At Joe's, whenever the disco ball starts turning and the lights start going, that means a dance is about to happen. That's when you drop everything and get ready for a little "Stayin' Alive." This goes for life too. Whenever these moments happen where you can just drop everything and have some fun, do it. Sure, people will stare and laugh, but that's the fun and bravery in all of it. And don't forget to have fun whilst dancing, otherwise, what's the point?

I guess Joe's did leave me with a few lessons I'm going to know for the rest of my life. Oh well, even though this job left me at my wits end and breaking point in multiple occurrences, in the end, it was worth it, dancing and all.